|A Consenting Juveniles narrative is a first-hand account reporting the words of the research subject on his or her experience.|
Translated from the original Dutch for SOL Research.
Difficult situations that wore me to shreds
|Source:||Ik rouw van jou: Jeugdschrijfster Hilde Dillen|
(Dutch: I mourn for you: Youth writer Hilde Dillen)
Interviewed by Mark Sargeant
Zizo (Belgium), May 1997
Obtained from the Internationaal Homo/Lesbisch Informatiecentrum en Archief, Amsterdam
Belgian author Hilde Dillens debut novel, Koorddansen (Dutch: Walking a Tightrope), is about a 16-year-old boy who had a relationship with a male teacher. In an interview shortly after the book was published, she explained the connection of the story to her own life.
I had the idea of writing a story about the beautiful relationship I had as a 13 or 14-year-old child with a man who was 17 years older.
I think it would be good for parents to realize that their twelve- or 13-year-olds neither children, nor yet adults can sometimes be preoccupied with the erotic.
People arent tolerant enough. There is constant misunderstanding. Personally, I find that very difficult. You have to constantly put such a high priority on your privacy and independence. You make that choice and you want to be left alone. It occupies you day in and day out.
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